Short answer: porn will ruin your marriage. Long answer: porn is created by men for men. You never see the women really orgasming, having a good time, or doing anything but being treated like a blowup doll. Thats not real, but porn watchers try to make it real in the bedroom. It's no fun having sex with a porn watcher. They are not trying to please you, share an experience with you or express love in any way. They are trying to fulfill a script they having been watching with you as a tool to do so. With porn comes masturbation, which also robs you of your spouses sexual desire as they are releasing their sexual needs without you, so you don't really know what the true sexual need of your partner is. If your partner is also online chatting, now you have another problem, they are sharing and fulfilling their fantasies with someone else. You are now being robbed of a rich fantasy love life. You are left with a spouse who thinks you are boring and frigid because they are off having sex with others without you and you are being treated like a blowup doll in bed, so you really are turned off by your partner.
Solution: Still working on that. First step was to ask for a moratorium on porn indefinitely. Second was zero tolerance policy on chatting with others, thats just downright cheating in my mind. Last is lots of talking, what do you like, what are your fantasies etc. So far still bad and it's been two years, but I'll keep you posted
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